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Acceptance is the precursor to healing
Stressors abound in our modern world. Children, parents, jobs, hobbies, money, health all contribute to our wellbeing and to our stress. In case of anything going wrong, be it a car accident, an angry altercation with the neighbor, or a robbery, most of us react with emotions. The severity and kind will of course vary. The real beginning of healing is when we accept what has happened. Acceptance also comes with a realization that you may have contributed to what happened. Thi
monica kapur
Mar 9, 20222 min read
Did you make a difference today?
Total 24 hours in a cycle of a day. How did you spend it? Shopping, cooking, household chores, work, driving, working out, the list goes...
monica kapur
Mar 6, 20221 min read


The first thought when you wake up and the last thought when you sleep will reveal to you all
What an odd statement but the statement has enormous implication in your life. Let me explain! As you fell off to sleep what did you think of? What area of your life? Who were the primary players in these thoughts? What emotional response did they bring forth, fear, loss, pain, healing or love? When you drift off to sleep, your last thoughts stay with you. You are in effect inhaling the last emotions of the day which can be negative or positive. Your thoughts are also influen
monica kapur
Mar 6, 20221 min read
Underneath all our wants, needs, desires is the penultimate goal of pure happiness or joy
We all have wants and needs, real and cultivated, influenced by ego and culture and society. Maslow, in 1943 created a pyramid of these needs starting with physiological, safety, love, belonging and ending with self actualization. Appealing classification! Let’s use his pyramid for this message, albeit a bit differently. Replace erudite terms like self actualization with joy. Now let’s start looking at our needs and wants from the top down i.e., joy is the starting point. Th
monica kapur
Feb 25, 20221 min read


Reflections on Mental Wellbeing
Hi Everyone , The blog came into being in the form of book almost a decade ago. I am sharing what I write and hope that it will resonate...
monica kapur
Feb 24, 20221 min read
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